This post assumes you are working with the default instance (cfsusion) and that you installed ColdFusion 10 to the default location on you Mac.
STATUS:
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/coldfusion status
START:
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/cf-standalone-startup
OR
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/coldfusion start
STOP:
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/coldfusion stop
RESTART:
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/coldfusion restart
Launch GUI for configuring Web Connectors:
sudo /Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/runtime/bin/wsconfig
RESET CFADMIN PASSWORD:
/Applications/ColdFusion10/cfusion/bin/passwordreset.sh
(Then Enter 1 for changing Admin Password and put in your new super strong password!)
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